Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

These were SAVED old messages, and it appeared she looked at then quite often, probably showing them off to people at work including him.

I called OMW this morning because we agreed that if either one of us heard anything we would call, so I did.

I ask OMW how the marriage and going and she said GREAT. She tol me about all this acts of service OM has been doing for her and gift he had bought her. For her B-Day he got her a card and highlighted many words in it and then wrote to her "I love you so much thank you for putting up me and sticking by me" something along those lines.

OMW was just is shock to hear they are talking again. She does not want him to talk to her at all. I told her about the google searches. OMW said that OM is feeding W BS because many of these things he is telling my W are not true such as, he was never on COPS and was never a dog control officer but this is what he is telling people particularly my W.

OMW has brother who works at airport, he was monitoring situation as well. OMW is going to bring up the talking to OM as if she heard it from her brother.

I told OMW, OM has to admit to talking to her because my W won't admit to talking to him. If she feels the need call me and assume my W will be on there other end as well if you want to get a point across. Either way OMW told me to call her on Monday for an update.

OMW has the right to defend her M too. So if she confronts her H about the situation, I hope my W feels mo pressure coming from my direction to make her feel trapped or like a prisoner, because technically its not me its OMW.

According to OMW marriage had been GREAT. OM cant keep hands off OMW, he is cleaning house, telling her how much he loves her ect...but then goes to work and engages with my W, breaking a commitment he made to his W.