Thanks Old Pilot, I was thinking about the last 16 months the other day and I really understood fully what a devastating mess MLC causes. You are right, I do not know what is going on for my H, he is another life and universe in a sense. I am trying to get on building the best life that I can for me and our D. I would say he realises just how much he needs OW on a lot of different levels at the moment.As you say, whether he comes out of replay or not it remains to be seen. What are the signs of H coming out of replay. You have mentioned getting rid of OW; are there any other main changes? Thanks for your postings by the way
