Lees doesnt surprise me about her family..you often find that there is a whole history of issues with OP and that they have personality disorders galore..the website I gave early on explains it.I am still sure there is something your W is not telling you...did she have problems with her parents because of her sexuality(again apologie if I am asking too personal questions..)My gut is telling me there is something she is not telling you..only because she is trying to dig deep and hide it herself?Possible? Yes our sitchs are tough.I am begining to feel human again..I am not sure how long I can go on standing.iMLin, Saf and all the other great vets on this site show there is hope.For me it may mean putting a hand out but I am not sure thats the right thing for H.
I am not sure if its out of fear of rejection or that I dont want to back to dealing with the cdg issues. The ow in my sitch, honestly is so vile.What woman preys on a sick old man, says horrible thigs, just to get to his SIL?What kind of man then goes on to sleep with someone like that? It scares me,I have seen the person he is capable of being.
I am glad you are feeling a little stronger mentally.I have to say I also thought about suicide however the girls kept me going. I agree with Saf doesnt matter what sex you are same,diff,(not sure what you call mine!)is absolutely c*** that we are all here. Lots of hugs((())) We should have rendevous in Scotland..thats a better idea...Saf you would be up for it? I have plenty of space. Howz your back Saf?
ME 44 H 45 D 14 D 20 M 22 YEARS TOGETHER 28YEARS Bomb Drop 14th July 09 Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09) MLC 3years
Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith