Goodfight, I dont mind you bumping on my thread x. I am not snodderly but I can tell you that in the past I have been advised to be a friend to my ex, my ex walked out the door and married the nearest skank for miles around, all within one year, I had to hold out the olive branch so to speak with ex because he didnt communicate with his only child for over 2 and half years. there was also times that different tales come back to me and there were obvious signs that ex was in a depressed state, and like you I didnt and still dont want ex to take the wrong route out of life so to speak, whatever these guys have or are still doing, we will always care and always have it in us to become a friend. I go through phases where I say I am done, but I know deep down if ever ex wanted to become a good friend I could and would do it. Just at this moment in time he is still busy with his new life and new wifey. so what I am saying to you is this, yes go ahead and bite the bullet, let your h know that he as a friend in you, keep it at that, dont discuss the past and what has happened, just let him know that he can come to you and that you will be there for him, xxx
