I just learned that Anthony Bourdain is coming to my town in June and I am trying to get tickets! Now what really really sucks is that WH and I used to watch his "food" show on the Travel channel and it would have been perfect for the two of us to go.
But I will go and then AFTER will tell him! neener neener neeeeener!
Ok so I took S to the museum (there was a play exhibit for babies) and then to the park later today. It was all right- he liked the play area but was so cranky that we had to leave!
I made his 12 month appointment and texted it to WH- it happened to be on S' actual birthday. I just said S' appt is 7/6/09 at 11:30. if you can't go we can change it!
WH replied a long message about how it works for him and that he will be getting shots and what a bummer to get shots on his actual birthday!
I just share this because his text reply seemed a little chatty.
Well for the drop off, I got a little dressed up with a new turquoise beaded 3 strand necklace and earrings to go with, and I fit into some black denim crop pants that I haven't worn in a couple of years! So I wore that to the parking lot exchange. Sure enough, WH looked me up and down and then asked "so you want me to bring him back 9ish?" I am pretty sure he asked because he assumed I was going out (which I do for real these days, lol! just not tonight) It still is annoying that he asks though- I tell him every time- between 8:30 and 9 is fine!
So I came back home, worked out and ate dinner (nutrisystem black bean soup to which I added peppers, onions, hot sauce and some fage fat free greek yogurt). Then I showered but didn't wash my hair and changed back into the clothes I was wearing lol! So that when he dropped off S it would look like I just got back! True confessions...
Anyway he dropped off S and I verified some schedule things with him....letting him know that it would be fine with me if he picked up S on Thursday night next week when he gets back from his trip instead of Fri a.m. (so I can go out for real!)
Then he commented on how much S was standing and I told him how he stood without touching anything when we were at the museum. It was the first time he did that and the first time I took him to that museum!
Well that was it. Oh- he did leave and come back real quick with S' bag but I stayed in the living room and just shouted "thanks! bye!" without getting up like I normally would have! lol!
Last edited by newmama; 05/14/1004:12 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004