I personally couldnt be in a relationship with a controlling guy either! I cant even be friends with people who want to take over your life and every decision...
Maybe we are just perfect and too intimidating for our H's? hahaha. only kidding!
But seriously... there are some wack-a-dos out their with sane spouses... and they will never leave them... makes you wonder right... but no judgement! Whatever works for them...