One thing this has taught me for sure is not to judge other's relationships. What works for some and make some happy wouldnt work for others...
Yes, I really and truly have learned that from this experience! But I wouldn't want to be married to a controlling jerk- I guess as long as he doesn't beat the woman, if she likes him, to each her own!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004