NM, when I hear of some stories and think the same... i didnt have any evident problems in my M. Maybe I was blind... then again, I see some relationships and wonder how the heck do they work? One thing this has taught me for sure is not to judge other's relationships. What works for some and make some happy wouldnt work for others...
people still tell me that my M to my H seemed like true love... rare true love. and yet he still left...
Grandmother told me tonight of two stories, both where H's left their spouses and both returned to their W's in 2 or 3 years. She looked at me and said I could never hate your H. I love him like my own grandson. I am hurt by what he did, but i dont think it was because of you and know it has to be something he is going through. She told me to speak softly and be sweet and love will bring him back...
i like to think that an 87 year old woman who was married to my grandfather for 53 years knows a little bit about something...
