i hope you dont mind SP - but you do get a lot of traffic ( very flattering ) but i wanted to know if anybody out there had a WAS ( my case XH ) ( separated for years ) who was still checking bank accounts and email accounts ( that passwords had not changed ) on a daily basis ?

Any thoughts on why such a WAH would do that ?

My accounts and email sites are for my business - reason I have not chnaged these particular passwords - I get a kick thinking everyday the first thing he thinks about is 'whats the ex up to '

Just dont understand why ?