Ok maybe 3 days, stop monitoring his behavior or reading in to it.
You have to build yourself up before anyone is going to come back to you.
It doesn't look like he cares about having to protect you right now, show him he doesn't need to.
It might relieve some anxiety, I can tell you if a woman shows a man she doesn't need him, whew drives a guy nuts.Driving me nuts and I'm the sane spouse.
He can barely take care of himself, the stress of having to take care of you isn't going to make it any easier.
I'm glad I've only caught the last couple of pages.
When you point your finger to blame someone else for your unhappiness how many fingers are pointing back at you.
Based upon what I've read, you show him you don't need him or care what he's doing, it might hit him like a Mack truck and make him all curious.
