still separated, headed for D?

[WhatNow]

In my opinion, if a man has an anger issue and he scares me, I couldn't be married to him.

I dated some of these guys. There are signs from early on...posessiveness, want all your time, jealous of your friends, road rage,....watch out. Some of the attention is flattering at first, so it easy to get sucked in before you know what's happened! before ya know it you are being stalked and need a restraining order...unless ya marry them!

So I can feel better knowing my marriage wasn't in the sh!thole when he cheated...we all have our weaknesses but it wasn't my fault he left me.

Of course it wasn't your fault!
In all the reading I have done about MLC, I am beginning to see that it is mis-named. I have said this before, somewhere. We all go through many transitions in life, and I think a crisis can occur in any one of those transitions. Some kids "fail to launch" in their 20's, some have "commitment issues" in their 30's, some freak out at settling down, and so on. Now I am rambling! Not your fault! his issues!