Ken, don't tell her your plans with the lawyers or any of that... just DO it.. stop putting her in the loop, you are gonna have a VERY HARD TIME with protection phase if you keep that up...
IGNORE her when she wants to know things... shes got no right to demand info when she's sneaking around behind your back calling other men.
Good job for the whole though!
Note : Don't explain yourself, the more you go into detail the less determined you will sound... just tell she's galavanting about with OM instead of parenting her children and walk away.
Regarding the harming children that's an easy one to prove if you need convincing... or you can drop a phone log on the table and show her that...
What... 40 hours on the phone this week talking to him? That's 40 hours she is neglecting her kids... toss her out... addicts make crappy parents.
How many hours has she and OM spent together that she COULD have put into mothering her kids?
How many hours of their mother's time has OM STOLEN from YOUR KIDS?
Every hour she puts into OM is an hour your wife SHORT CHANGES her kids...
Very basic math there... shes either a mother or a cheater, she can't be both...
