At one point, she asked, "What if I stop talking to him (the OM)?"
Woo-Hooo! Memorize what you said so when it comes up again, you can be consistent.
Don't forget to add a NC letter to OM, and full transparency in addition to NC w/OM! These are important to rebuild trust, and she must commit to them from the beginning. Your counselor needs to be well-versed in these concepts.
What does your PP letter to her look like?
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread