still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Thanks Gatsby! One of the reasons why I like to hear divorce stories is because I can say "we didn't have that problem!" do you know what I mean? So I can feel better knowing my marriage wasn't in the sh!thole when he cheated...we all have our weaknesses but it wasn't my fault he left me. I do know that, but I like affirmation from comparing good reasons for divorce.

In my opinion, if a man has an anger issue and he scares me, I couldn't be married to him. Of course if he worked on it and changed, that is different (I think). I wonder if controlling men can change. I do think of "Sleeping With the Enemy" w/Julia Roberts- that husband was scary!!!