It just seems to me that OIN doesn't even realize how much he hovers over his wife. He knows where she is ever second of the day. I think if someone like me can see this dynamic, then how must SHE feel having to live like that?
I think she KNOWS he is watching every move she is making. That includes the most recent snooping regarding her phone logs, emails, history on her computer, spies at her work etc. etc..
I believe she doesn't trust him one iota not to be snooping and even expects and knows he is still doing it.