Gatsby- I watched The Office but didn't see any infidelity references! I love that show though! It comes on a couple of hours tonight in the Pacific Northwest!

OK I really think you know what you want. Stick to your plan. Like you said, IF your H contacts you, you will meet him. Otherwise no. (however you might soften a little after your girl is born! And that really would be okay- you can still have boundaries in place to keep your H away!)

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004