I have won a Fulbright award and a visiting fellow to Harvard University. My solicitor is putting in an application for me to take our D with me there from end of Jan 2010 to end of June 2010.
I guess you are finishing your stay at Harvard. I hope that went well
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I wanted to ask whether nay of you know of timelines in MLC and whether 16 months after Bomb Drop (still with OW that H was in affair with prior to and after Bomb Drop) is still a relatively short amount of time?
He sounds like he is still in replay. Timelines are not a good way to measure his progress. It is better to see what his actions tell you he is doing. Until the OW is out of the picture he is still in replay. Affairs can last up to two years or more. But there are no guarantees.
Replay could go on forever. Some people get stuck there. Remorse would come much later.
