What bothers me the most is to look into my H's eyes. There is no spark, they just look dead. His skin pallor is so gray and his facial hair has gone completely white. When he walks it looks as though he's carrying the weight of the world, no spring in his step. He's only 56 but he looks much older. Everyone who sees him says the same.
Hello ladies! And why do we want out H's back when they look this bad....jk!!!!
I want mine back to fix my car and start the lawn mower! My vehicle is making a clanging noise and looks to be leaking power sterring fluid and of course I planned to drive out of town for a graduation party on Sat....work tomorrow with kids having eye Dr appts afterwork so not really much time to get a vehicle looked at and fixed by Sat. Not to mention finding money to pay for the repairs!
Then, S14 went out to mow and couldn't get it to start...my yard is a jungle again since it has rained all week...
But, at least the sun is out today! :-/
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
You can check the power steering fluid and buy some and add more, for a few dollars. That won't stop the leak but at least you should be able to steer the car. If you go to an auto parts store they might even do it for you(check for free). Autozone or PEP Boys type of places.
Thank OP...I didn't realize that someplace like Autozone might do that...doesn't hurt to ask! I was thinking of just taking it somewhere like Thrifty Lube to have all the fluids checked...time for an oil change anyway...SS28 came and looked under the car to see what was clanging and noticed the leak! Luckily, no huge puddles or anything where I park so it is a slow leak.
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
They will do lots of things, they want to sell parts. LOL. They want you to do the work but sometimes one of the guys might check some things. I go there whenever I get a check engine light and they check it and reset it for me.
Not really SA...said it could be a shock or strut...nothing looked cracked, loose or rusted out underneath so that is good...just not sure about taking it on a 200mi road trip before having a pro look at it.
I am just glad that it made that noise for him when he drove it! You know how it is...
Thank OP!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
Hello ladies! And why do we want out H's back when they look this bad....jk!!!!
You made me laugh out loud! Way to keep your humor, CW. Good luck with the car and do explain what you did and how you did it so I can learn, too!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Sorry I've been MIA CW. Glad to hear that you're doing well with detachment. I too am very impressed with your handling seeing your H with OW too. I dread the day .
Originally Posted By: confusedwife
I can't get mine to stay on the phone with me for more than 5 mins unless we are talkiing about the weather!!!!
You're doing better than I am!
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
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