I sent an email yesterday asking how he wanted to proceed next in our negotiations and to point out a couple of additional financial facts that hadn't been considered yet. He responded with the above (I paraphrased 10 paragraphs down into that one sentence.) He wants to meet face to face tonight to discuss the sep agreement, but I know that's a bad idea.
Oh, Bunny, I repeat my repeated repetition: Go Dark. NO Contact. Lawyer to Lawyer only. For your own sanity, peace of mind, and healthy future.
You of all people should know - viscerally - that as long as he can send his sick, condescending, insulting, twisted diatribes knowing that his sub-human, non-person Bunny-possession will read them and respond (!) to them he's still got you in his mind-effing clutches!.
And he's right, quite frankly.
Email him and tell him ALL email and texts from him him will immediately be forwarded to your L unopened, unread.
Originally Posted By: SpyBunny
Part of me wants to say f*** him, run and just forget the whole damn thing. I don't want a penny if it means he disappears from my life, I'll make it work somehow. Another part of me doesn't want to let him off the hook. I'm torn which way to go.
I don't blame you for wanting to throw up your hands and just leave. But if you do that he will never "disappear from your life" Not unless you drop him and his sick, twisted, manipulative communications from your life completely and fight, fight, fight for everything you can get for being effed with in so many ways for so many years. Damn, Bunny! But in a loving, objective, seeing-it-from-the-outside way!
(((BUNNY)))
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
