Exactly Mila! Your H needs a good dose of what it's like to miss you. He can't stand that you're not relating to him on a personal level. I know it's not a punishment for him, but you can't miss what's always there.
I think your H is starting to be afraid that he's losing you. Hopefully this makes him take a good look at ow and realize this isn't worth giving you up for.
Stay as dark as you possibly can on the personal level. Have some answers that are short and to the point in case he shows up and questions you. Make sure there is a cool and business like Mila on tap.
Obviously there are no guarantees, but it seems as though change is in the wind for you.
