You can't police her thoughts... THAT is a line you leave alone
Your aim is to motivate and influence, not break or control her... Your goal is to give her a REASON to act in the way you think is healthiest for you two...
How is the family therapist hunt going?
I would own them if she confronts you.. I am a bit confused as to who's mail is where and what's going on...
I am missing some of the details... so its hard to confirm what exactly you deleted from where and who owned it
