This may sound evil but honestly I can't wait for that day when my wife feels like that. They deserve it for breaking up the family because they were selfish, self-centered and poor communicators of their needs. In my case I felt she had it all and she threw it away because of the reasons only she knows.
I still don't get that she keeps telling you that she's in pain etc but won't come out and say that she regrets she's done this and that she's sorry for putting you through hell and that she's still unhappy and she mis-judged everything.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again