I don't think he even hears you when you say anything that doesn't agree with his rationalizations.
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He said he can never come over to the house because they are here now.
Well he showed you!
He is talking like my 13 year old! Do you argue with a teenager? No cuz they will hang on even when contradicting themselves. You raise your eyebrows, shrug and look at them sympathetically, and walk away.
ya know, I think he is stating his fears. I had to cure myself from communicating this way. I did it to get someone to say what I wanted to hear. I didn't do it to the extent of your H or others I have seen, but still...... Ever hear a friend say "I am so fat. I need to diet." So what do you say? Oh no, you're not fat. It gets old. If you were to say "I'm sorry you think that" Or feel that or believe that, it would lessen.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
