I agree with you that every situation is unique. CityGirl posted this on another thread today and it struck a cord with me because I know firsthand that no truer words were ever spoken..."There is no quicker way to kill respect, love and attraction then resentment. Once resentment starts it is very easy to build and as the resentment builds the love/respect diminishes quickly. In my experience once resentment builds many other issues that were once tolerable become intolerable to the spouse who wants out." - CityGirl
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.