Only that they talk. Not like they use to but there is some chat going on. I don't want it to escalate though. According what I heard up till yesterday it was going fine besides a few words here and there. Then yesterday they spoke in non-group setting.

No phone logs, yet. However OMW is also keeping track of that.

on another note, I think I made a huge mistake.

W had phone that I pay for. As I had said W was sending self email which are copied to phone. I picked up phone today and seen many of the emails saved. Then I seen messages she saved when this all first started happening and even before then about how I was upset with our marriage and I admit when this first started to happen I was in panic mode making threats to harm myself....So I deleted these old messages but touch nothing else, even the one with the quotes...Did I make a huge mistake by doing this?

What should I say when she notices they are gone?


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10