Yes, exactly. You may not have gotten 5 yet, a la Ms. Tuppy, but you are among the leaders in the clubhouse for the "Lifetime Achievement Award," along with Coach, Robx and Sandi.
Or was that "Miss Congeniality?" I get them confused.
Well I think my W is officially obsessed with OM...again.
Today my W did a google search for OM name, first it started of as "I like R" but then she stopped typing and did not hit search. R is the first letter of OM name.
Then W googled OM full name, then W looked for OM on youtube. apparently OM was on the show COPS a while back (he was animal control). My W was searching for that vid.
My W then searched OMW name, then searched OMW sister's name....
I am just gathering intel, so my W has no clue I know she did this.
What should I do next?
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
Only that they talk. Not like they use to but there is some chat going on. I don't want it to escalate though. According what I heard up till yesterday it was going fine besides a few words here and there. Then yesterday they spoke in non-group setting.
No phone logs, yet. However OMW is also keeping track of that.
on another note, I think I made a huge mistake.
W had phone that I pay for. As I had said W was sending self email which are copied to phone. I picked up phone today and seen many of the emails saved. Then I seen messages she saved when this all first started happening and even before then about how I was upset with our marriage and I admit when this first started to happen I was in panic mode making threats to harm myself....So I deleted these old messages but touch nothing else, even the one with the quotes...Did I make a huge mistake by doing this?
What should I say when she notices they are gone?
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10