Visited with MC. Told him as honestly as I could what was going on. After the hour, he said that sometimes spouce has mad up their mind and that is that. If she does not want to truely work on the M, then there is nothnig he or I can do.
What does 'working on a M' look like? Some DB tactics look pretty passive. The important thing is the R is improving on a long-term basis, you and your W are getting more hopeful, etc.
Now in MC, if it is goal orientated, then regardless of intent, some goals can be worked on. For example, communication can be worked on.
