I will talk to MC about this. I know H will not listen and probably will just strengthen his resolve.
BEsides, I get the excuse from him that I was the one who destroyed our marriage, he is just "moving on with his life" since being separated.
IT's very painful but from reading these boards I am beginning to think just moving on myself is the best option? ARen't R talks off the table anyhow? I know I can't change what he does, and I don't want to push him away. But when I let him go and do what he wants out of calm acceptance, he does it more. WHen I fight him he does it more.
How do people come out of affairs? For me it took my H leaving to wake me up fully. He has already left so I can't shake him up. What else can I do?
