Oh, wasn't doing it for anyone but myself. I had no idea anyone was even looking at it. She never showed any interest in anything I was doing. I was just sharing with my friends and family, and then as I was picking up the kids, her friend mentioned my pictures on FB. I was taken completely by surprise, as I thought I had locked out anyone that wasn't a friend of mine.

How did they even know what I was up to? I didn't dwell, but it was surprising. Continuing with my own stuff, for me!

My advice to anyone in this situation, enjoy your single life while you have it again. Do activities, and enjoy friends. Have experiences that you otherwise wouldn't have had if you were your old self.


M:39 W:37
Together: 16 years
Married: 11 years
Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY)
Moved out: Nov '09
D: 10, 8, 4