WhatNow, I have told him that the friendship makes me uncomfortable and even finally had the chance to tell him in order for there to ever be an us, he would have to have NC with her. He didn't respond when I said that.
I validate almost always with "I am sorry you feel that way". But not with "I am sorry you still believe that..." I'm using that one next time.
I do still have C card and no, he is not going anymore. He told me it was a waste of time and money.
It will be easier to go darker now that I have 2 cats. He said he can never come over to the house because they are here now.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
