They are interested in what's going on, although they will never let you know.
I think the motivation might be wrong if you are doing it for them. Just my 2 cents. Now, my marriage is over, so take that with a grain of salt, but... I do remember how I got here.
I don't know how you get here before you know your M is over. That's a skill I do not have.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-