Wow. Well done. Wow, thats so sweet that he said he is "1000% committed". See, you can get the reassurances like bf was giving me last night!

Judging by my week alone (tough), I think him being gone for over a month may bring up some feelings in you too!! Maybe ask him to contact you more than he would 'normally', if you need extra reassurance?

I believe him that he has no contact with her, I really felt all along he is DONE.

Great that he is throwing away the gifts (where are they, back in his Dads apartment??).

I really dont buy this "2nd prize" stuff, you never were, it just seems that way. These woman are not the love of their lives. If she was, he would be with her now. She was a symtom of some greater malaise in him that he or you havent really got to the bottom of. Or maybe its just a man thing, a rite of passage, who knows. BUT, I like that he said you are "his no 1 choice". Wonderful.

I tried calling you tonight, I'm glad I didnt get you seeing as you were busy having such a good convo.
Love ya, al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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