I actually think that if your W knows that you are pretty forgetful about friends birthdays then that was quite a nice text to send you. Often friends don't tell us when their b'days are....but then do feel a bit upset when the day goes unmarked. A quick text to thank your W might be a nice thing back?
About y'all being the same sex - so what? There are others on here in a similar sitch. It's just a bummer any of us have ever had the reason to be here.
Now I know you are a she I feel I can send you (((((hugs))))) - hope tomorrow is a better day.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength