first off, thank you for visiting my thread, you are a remarkable man. with all the pain you are experiencing in your own sitch you still find the time and the compassion to comfort others
Quote: Am I correct in taking what you mean about being in limbo is in reference to how you feel within?
actually, the limbo that i feel is the lack of affection. altho i am feeling much less anxious about the lack of "sex" then i did a short 3 weeks ago, it still is an issue. it still is a sore spot because i still feel that without that first "act" after the bomb, there can really be no healing of the r - so in essense, even tho i KNOW i am doing the right thing by staying, we really are only "roommates"
but i do have to always remember - this saturday (22nd) only marks the 6th month of this he// and so i must be patient cause so much can change in a relatively short period of time
does that make better sense to my "limbo" comment?
and thanks for the ideas about family fun. i have to get that going because the kids really don't deserve to be left out of things - even if daddy doesn't wanna do stuff right now
