It's so easy to relate. Your spouse will eventually return to some semblance of the woman you used to know, but it's going to take a very long time. I continue to make mistakes, but I know I won't make them twice. Take each interaction and try to learn from it. I jumped the gun, and I know that won't do that again. Get back to my own life and enjoy. No kids tonight, so I'm going out.
Get a list of friends that enjoy going out and doing stuff. This will be a wonderful tool, and you'll really have fun. I have a FB page, but I don't have my spouse as a friend or any of her friends, but somehow they are seeing some stuff that I'm doing. They are interested in what's going on, although they will never let you know.
Last edited by AtTheEnd?; 05/13/1009:44 PM.
M:39 W:37 Together: 16 years Married: 11 years Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY) Moved out: Nov '09 D: 10, 8, 4
