Originally Posted By: pandora
so sorry to hear you're going through this trent. you have been a rock to so many of us here (you're the one who brought me over)...so know we are still here for you now.


Thanks.

Originally Posted By: pandora
also, take into consideration what J3B is saying...not to say you're not valid in hurting and wanting...but just make sure you'll feel right about your decision tomorrow. i know how it can get so emotional when you're in the thick of something.


I don't have to make it about the OM; I can make it about the fact that I don't want to be stuck waiting for her to figure things out any more.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."