Think my wife is having an MLC, looking for help

[TrentC]

Things were getting better and if I am not mistaken...this is her crossing a boundary...an ultimatium?

What are you going to do, keep taking her back if she gets scared enough?

Not this time. I don't move back until there is real commitment, demonstrated through action, that she wants to work on this and he's out of the picture for good -- transparency, the whole nine yards.

Don't get me wrong, if that's how you roll, then roll with it baby...but maybe next time... absolute transparency, no f-ing passwords or accounts you do not know about, and let her know that if she isn't cool with you verifying she can be trusted, then she shoudldn't be trusted.

Exactly. I took it on the chin and trusted without transparency or verification, and here we are.

Boo F-ing Hoo and $3.00 will get you a small coffee at starbucks...to her man...not you Trent...pissed at her.

I'm pissed but also I feel sorry for her; sorry that she is willing to toss away everything she claims to stand for to pursue a relationship that odds say will not work out.