Ooohhhh Time, sweetie I'm so sorry to hear of this. Hugs to you... tell me more.

Did he expand on 'he still has issues?' What issues? If he's got issues, make him spell them out. Might he be just throwing that out there to distract you from the original point of conflict, and keep from having to answer to the phone call to OW?

And how did he react to you saying that if he couldn't answer, to forget it?

I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.