Does she still sit around and play that stupid game?
Maybe time for you to get tough and cut her off.
Did you ever do much searching for work near where you live?
There are lots of high tech companies in Beaverton, Tigard, Hillsboro, Wilsonville and Tualatin, but I dont know if there are many job openings.
A long time ago, I lived on the east side of Portland and commuted to Tualatin - it sucked so I specifically searched and bought a house in the Tigard/Tualatin area. Have you considered moving to be close to where you work?
