I need help in the biggest way. I feel so helpless

[timehealsall]

I need my friends today..

So, on my way home yesterday, I receive an email from some bogus account that said that my husband is having an affair, with who (the OW's name) and that she's pregnant and it may even be his. That he walks around their country holding hands like a happy family and that he is a big effin liar and loser.

I told H about it and we wrote it off to the fact that we thought/think it's the guys that used to work for him that had been stealing from him and are now peeved because H screwed them over.

I asked H last night that I needed to know if he had any contact with her whatsoever and he said no. (is it sad I dont' know whether or not to believe?)

We had a good night. had S and all that.

Today, things are great. called me and everything was great.

I get an email from OW stating that H had called her to accuse her of sending me that email and that she didn't and wants to be left alone and that she is pregnant and it may be his but that it's none of his business. and that she wants to be left alone and no more emails or calls please.

So I questioned H and he called me and said yes, he did because he was upset that people are talking sh!t about him and that he is here trying to fix things and they are trying to ruin everything. so I told him to just leave it alone, ignore them, it'll die down. don't give them that satisfaction.

So then I say, listen, you're home working on things, right? he said yes, I said you want to be with me right? he said, I'm trying, I still have my issues.. I said that's not what I ask. i asked you want to be with me and he repeated what he said.. then I said, yes or no and he couldn't/wouldn't answer.

I told him that being that he couldn't answer to just forget it. what's the point. I am so sad and angry. He could get himself so worked up that she could get a phone call but he can't give me a straight answer whether or not he wants to be with me?

help me.