It sounds like you really got a chance to explain to H how you feel, which is good. He once again said he is committed to you which is great. Now some actions like throwing away the gifts.
THings sound like they are going well.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89