So I haven't replied to the txt. Not sure if a "thanks for letting me know" is in order or whether to just keep schtum.
At least I've done 2 little bits of work today now. Need to really crack on with it at the weekend, especially reading the 2 manuals for the course I'm instructing on in just over a week, as I'm working next weekend.
Thanks for looking in on me again JacT. I'm doing OK, losing hope in my sitch rather than hope in my life. I did initally try very hard to fight openly for my marriage for about 3 or 4 weeks, but it obviously didn't work as the OW was in the picture unbeknownst to me then.
I'm wondering if all this LRT is the right thing having done quite a lot more reading today. The STBXW did complain that I never tried to save things whilst we were married, and here I am walking away again......
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.