My h is having his mothers basement finished I guess so he can move down there and have more room. He wants his guitar too. I always wanted him to play his guitar when he was here but he didn't. It is like he is trying to relive his youth at his mothers where he grew up. He says I didnt allow him to have his friends here either which is not true. he never asked to have them over. he blames me for everything. I guess this is mlc or because of a.
I keep peeking in hoping to see some positive movements...when I do, it seems that just a few minutes later you follow with more spew of H and what he is doing, why he is doing it...
i will work on staying positive and focusing on me and my son. I have to be responsible for my own happiness and Im not use to that. is anyone familiar with the group parents with out partners. the psychologist recommended it. im not interested if it is a dating group.
Rather than focus on what your H is doing and trying to figure him out why don't you tell us about your history class. What will you make for dinner tonight? What can you see sitting out in your yard today on a nice day?
Your H is going to do whatever he is going to do. That is a given. It honestly does not matter if he is having a mlc or is a walkway or is Bat guano crazy. What matters is that you have to find a way to refocus.
~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
Okay, First so many people posted to you and the only post you acknowledged was Andabelle because it was a gently worded post. You are ignoring good advice which of course is your choice but it is a bad choice.
Second parents without partners is not a dating group. Just go and check it out. Talk to real people so you won't feel so alone.Work on getting healthy fast.
I am going to make a steak on the grill for dinner. I usually don't eat meat i am pretty much a vegan. So it will be a treat. I asked my mother to come over too.
The class is different. the only assignment we have , is to choose a country with 130 mil. people or more, and write a 5 page paper on how we would run the country, and also read our text book. What language, religion, etc. He doesn't want us to do any research on how it is run now just our own creative ideas about it, which is kind of interesting and different. He went to Duke Univ. so I would think he is a good Prof.
My h said he was sorry for a on Fri. I wonder if his heart is softening. he didnt say he was sorry for the past 2 mos since starting a again until now.
H gave me a mothers day card and he signed it with " Love". I had a bad cold for the past 4 days and h asks my son everyday if Im better. He said to son if I don't get better I should go to doctor.
