I would hate to think that your are making quick decisions based off an assumption. All I am asking you to do is make sure this is true and accurate.
I found a chat conversation in her email -- she changed all of her passwords so I couldn't snoop, but she left it open last night! -- that mentions, in somewhat indirect language, that they are either having phone sex or "sexting", I'm not sure which. I saved a copy of the email.
Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
As for moving out of the hosue, bah. I am one of the ones that thinks the b*tch or d*ck should be the one to vacate.
The thing is, neither of us can afford to live in that house on a single income; we will probably have to sell, assuming we do not default and it goes into foreclosure. I'm still on the deed and will finish some of the home repair projects to get it ready for sale, but it's better that she is stuck in that house by herself for awhile. (Frankly, the last two times that I left for a couple of days, it freaked her out.)
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement