Does your H ever say things like:

"You just think ___________."

"You always/never do _____________."

"People never change."

"You feel like______________."


Quote:
if he's the one who's not sure if he's ready for fatherhood, why didn't he just say it? why did he have to say that i wasn't ready or that he didn't think i could handle it? if he wasn't sure of himself, he should have said it was him and not pin it on me.


Because it would let you down if he said he wasn't ready. Hurting people say hurtful things.

Whose the real procrastinator in the R?
Why would he procrastinate?


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.