As you can see from my sig, I've been here awhile.

My problem now is this: During the big D sitch, I couldn't get enough sex & had an O every single time! I'm guessing drama does this for some reason.

Now, things are pretty much "normal" around here & I have absolutely NO sex drive!

Any ideas? I make sure that we still have sex regularly b/c that was part of our downfall, but I want to enjoy it too. I know H knows that I'm pretty much just going through the motions, although he hasn't ever said anything, but I really could use some help here. Thanks!


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10