W officially in R w/ OM-

[ericmsant2]

Jasper

I’m not going to go with the 2x4 but I wanted to help with True suggestion; that you reread what has been posted to you.

Here are just a few…

I would continue to focus on your healing and growth. You are not responsible for her issues - she owns them. You own yours. It is that simple.

Several weeks ago you posted that you were done. I thought quite honestly that you were not but only you know when you are really done.

Have you asked yourself what done really is?

My observation is you did not give yourself over to this process that focuses on YOU and your own emotional health, detaching from W IS necessary for you to become healthy. This M is toxic right now and you are full of the poison.

You were on the right track but have returned to your ways. I stick around out of curiosity

Live, love and enjoy life to the fullest - you deserve it buddy. You deserve it.

Now…on to your back and forth exchange with W....

IMO – this happened because you have not let go. You are not done yet. Period. I know that you recently met a friend, which I’m sure help take your mind off some of the pain. The problem with this IMO…is that you still are not done – deep down inside you still had some hope that YOU may have been able to fix this…that maybe just maybe she would come out of this.

The reality is that she may come out of it...but will you be ready? That my friend is the question you must answer.

You see once you HEAL and grow from this..once you let her deal with her own shirt....you will finally realize that YOU control this. You control you. Whatever she does will not matter. Cause you will realize the Man that you are.

Heal...heal my friend...get over this crap. Take as long as you need to heal..do it for YOU. Cry, do what you need to but dude - let go. Let go.

I am the cause of the problems in this "R" right now- there is no R-

This quote is so true...you no longer have an R. Now accept it, and go find Jasper. Don't worry about who is going to file first, last - it doesn't make a difference. What is the most important thing buddy is YOU! YOU my friend are the most important thing in this process.

As True said...

You are in contol of the sh!tmaking machine because it is YOU.

It's all about YOU. You are the machine, you are your own healer, you are the f**king man!

God Bless,
Eric