It's funny how the WAS's cheat and feel no guilt, yet the LBS feels guilty when they finally move on.....
Oh, they feel guilt, but they would never show it to the LBS, or anyone else for that matter, under normal circumstances. My was a WAW from her first M (yeah, yeah, I know, I should've seen the red flags). Most of the time she acted like her leaving him was for the best, and they're both so much better off, blah, blah, blah.
Many years ago when our son was diagnosed with a speech delay, I came home and my W was crying. I asked her what was wrong, and she held her head down and said weeping "The reason S2 has the speech delay is because God is punishing me for leaving <first H>." I was blown away. She had never shown any guilt or remorse about it ever before, or since, but it's in there.
