It's not something you can spell out lees, its something you need to spend months learning and practicing... its something her parents should have taught her when she was a CHILD... but somehow failed to...
It takes months or even YEARS to learn what's said in that paragraph.. it can't be spelled out... particularly to an addict... I read your sitch.. your wife is a classic case for romance addiction... When her romance dies, she will escape again.. and repeat that until reality comes knocking in the form of pregnancy, cancer, or menopause... You can try to educate her... She may even return when her current addiction fals apart in hopes you can offer her a newfound romance again...
