The BIG ONE is that I never "went out" when we were together. I was very much a homebody.
Once she left, and I was alone, I had no choice but to venture out and make new friends and try new thing to keep myself from going crazy sitting at home.
I have talked to her about this, and explained that when she left I had NO CHOICE but to do these things... I couldn't just sit home alone and fall apart.
